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#1 24-09-07 13:55:42

Mashlover4077
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I feel myself for men

As  always I enjoy coming back here after a hiatus. I am still wondering though why no one has created a similar site for men. Perhaps someday...

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#2 24-09-07 14:17:52

Rooster9
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Re: I feel myself for men

I have wondered that also. I have searched on the internet but never found anything that wasn't hard-core gay orientated. If men perform on Beautiful Agony then there would seem to be a place for a male I Feel Myself. I am straight, but nevertheless I think I would enjoy it, just the way straight women enjoy this site.

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#3 24-09-07 19:31:28

Ianclarke
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Re: I feel myself for men

Before signing up to IFM, I think my reaction to this suggestion would have been VERY different. But having seen the tasteful way you treat female masturbation, I can see that this might be an interesting area to explore. If anyone can do this in a sensitive way which is not sordid and tacky, then you can.
Maybe an opener would be a "couples" shoot - we have many beautiful examples of "girl-on-girl" mutual mastubation,  so it would only be a small step to a mixed couple getting the same joy!
I think you might want to do a couple of things with the site navigation though.
1) Add new icons to distinguish (new) "Mixed Couples" from (existing) "Female Couples", and (new) "Solo - Male" from (existing) "Solo - Female" and
2) Make it easier to filter on that classification to make it easier for members to filter out anything which they'd rather not see.

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#4 25-09-07 02:58:45

bigjim
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Re: I feel myself for men

I ran this by a female friend of mine.  She feels like the market might not be there for it.  When I pressed her for a more detailed answer, she said she felt the demand for a product like this would orient itself more to a gay audience - which is OK... but maybe not to females.

My friend likes porn but she said that a man masturbating never really turned her on such as other porn.  She also has no interest in man-man sex. She likes straight lovemaking, porn with toys, and also woman-woman lovemaking.  And she absolutely dislikes most conventional porn with the background music, fake ecstasy howls, and such.

She loves this site, btw.  When I asked her if she could masturbate to these videos, she asked me the same question.  When I told her that I have found the IFM videos to be among the best examples of erotica I have ever seen, and yes, I have masturbated to the IFM videos, she responded with a definite "Yes, I could too..."

Yet I don't know if I would get turned on by a male version of IFM.

It would be interesting to see what the market is....

Maybe some females on board can chime in.

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#5 25-09-07 03:00:35

gala
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Re: I feel myself for men

I like to watch boys jerk off.

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#6 25-09-07 03:13:27

kirejos
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Re: I feel myself for men

gala wrote:

I like to watch boys jerk off.

Classic cool


Words tend to be inadequate -Jenny Holzer

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#7 25-09-07 03:24:38

kirejos
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Re: I feel myself for men

Ifeelmyself (men/boys/guys/blokes) would make an interesting "sister-site" wink


Words tend to be inadequate -Jenny Holzer

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#8 25-09-07 05:12:33

momentextase
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Re: I feel myself for men

Mashlover4077 wrote:

As  always I enjoy coming back here after a hiatus. I am still wondering though why no one has created a similar site for men. Perhaps someday...

It's been done. Its called "Yahoo." Personalized and on demand no less... for free to boot.


"I always have a wonderful time, wherever I am, whomever I'm with."  ~Elwood P. Dowd

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#9 25-09-07 06:07:30

leda
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Re: I feel myself for men

kirejos wrote:
gala wrote:

I like to watch boys jerk off.

Classic cool

I nearly wrote something very similar but I got all shy.....believe it or not. I LOVE watching my fella come in fact I´ve loved watching  all my previous fellas masterbate and even if I´m so far from being in the mood in isn´t funny this will do it for me ...everytime :0

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#10 25-09-07 06:38:58

aven frey
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Re: I feel myself for men

can I just second that I like to watch boys jerk off and if Richard would let me we'd have them doing just that on IFM! Like Leda it will pretty much put me in the mood every time too!

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#11 25-09-07 14:46:42

Nowaysis
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Re: I feel myself for men

Sounds like it's time to go through that stack of tapes propping up Richard's desk, eh? wink


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#12 25-09-07 15:31:18

richard
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Re: I feel myself for men

Thanks for reminding me Nowaysis - the tapes you are referring to (Ruby) are now on Bobby's desk.  So bobby, when will they get an airing?

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#13 25-09-07 17:17:22

zekeandgertrude
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Re: I feel myself for men

momentextase wrote:
Mashlover4077 wrote:

As  always I enjoy coming back here after a hiatus. I am still wondering though why no one has created a similar site for men. Perhaps someday...

It's been done. Its called "Yahoo." Personalized and on demand no less... for free to boot.

Interesting perspective, and accurate, to a point. Context, presentation & philosophy/intent aside, the very existence of IFM speaks (quite profoundly) to social realities surrounding the "authentic female orgasm", and the fact that people who want to witness genuine acts of female climax find it necessary to pay specifically for the experience.  Conversely, you are absolutely correct -- people don't even need to seek out pornography anymore to witness the male orgasm, as any number of men online will gladly perform for free & at the drop of a hat.  At the very least, this suggests that a male-focused version of IFM would not make for a sound investment opportunity.

However, this line of reasoning leads to an interesting question: If we woke up tomorrow morning and women had joined the Yahoo wank-fest en masse, matching the boys stroke for stroke, would IFM suddenly become obsolete?

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#14 25-09-07 18:56:38

momentextase
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Re: I feel myself for men

zekeandgertrude wrote:

However, this line of reasoning leads to an interesting question: If we woke up tomorrow morning and women had joined the Yahoo wank-fest en masse, matching the boys stroke for stroke, would IFM suddenly become obsolete?

Good point! You have grasped what I was getting at, and its limitations, completely.

I feel that if what you spoke of did happen, IFM would have nothing to worry about. Seems to me it is about more than just wanking, there are voyeuristic, exhibitionist and even artistic subtleties going on. Not to mention sexuality as a communication and an expression, and IFM being an avenue for that for women.

The exhibitionistic side of me does wish there were a male equivalent of IFM, I would really get off having a chance to contributing to this sort of thing, despite knowing it could be scary at the start.

Knowing that there are women who would enjoy a male IFM is a big turn on!

Another thing -why should only the gals get to claim all the fun?

I see this as a future thing though, in terms of being viable. Hopefully in time as sexual attitudes become more deobjectified and more humanized this can work. Maybe it already can, but all the reasons why it may not have already been well enumerated. I am certainly not opposed to this idea, far from it, but from a realistic perspective, to me at this moment, it just seems like a bridge too far.

Sigh.


"I always have a wonderful time, wherever I am, whomever I'm with."  ~Elwood P. Dowd

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#15 25-09-07 20:49:51

Ianclarke
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Re: I feel myself for men

OK, so you don't have to dig too deep to find vids of "boys jerking off". But Oh, they're so sordid and sleazy, and evidently fake (Technical query, how the heck do they DO that?? That volume is biologically impossible).

IFM does still have the edge in its uniquely sensitive treatment. I'd bet that the girls who like to watch a male solo performance also like to "give a helping hand" now and then, and this would make an interesting addition to the "twosomes" folder.

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#16 26-09-07 09:03:40

Rooster9
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Re: I feel myself for men

Ianclarke wrote:

I'd bet that the girls who like to watch a male solo performance also like to "give a helping hand" now and then, and this would make an interesting addition to the "twosomes" folder.

If the girl gave assistance this would be erotic, but wouldn't it contradict the concept of "I Feel Myself"? Nevertheless, I would like to see 'natural' masturbatory activity, whether the man or the woman does the work, but with the setting, lighting, atmosphere etc being similar to what we have on this site at present. The 'conclusion' to the activity would also be natural, rather than the obligatory nonsense one gets in standard porn. The appeal of this site is that the contributors are not porn stars - therefore we can identify with them much more readily.

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#17 26-09-07 12:08:23

Nowaysis
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Re: I feel myself for men

richard wrote:

Thanks for reminding me Nowaysis - the tapes you are referring to (Ruby) are now on Bobby's desk.  So bobby, when will they get an airing?

Hmm... I don't know whether to be offended at the blatant disregard for the subject, or excited at the prospect hinted at. big_smile


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#18 28-09-07 00:23:36

Ianclarke
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Re: I feel myself for men

Rooster9 wrote:

If the girl gave assistance this would be erotic, but wouldn't it contradict the concept of "I Feel Myself"?

Well, OK, if you're going to be a pedant, (I am, so why not you too) it should be "we feel each other", or we'd lose all the lovely "girl-on-girl" action. (Still recovering from Gala's latest masterpiece smile )

Rooster9 wrote:

Nevertheless, I would like to see 'natural' masturbatory activity, whether the man or the woman does the work,

IC wrote:

I'm thinking "Both"

but with the setting, lighting, atmosphere etc being similar to what we have on this site at present. The 'conclusion' to the activity would also be natural, rather than the obligatory nonsense one gets in standard porn. The appeal of this site is that the contributors are not porn stars

Agree 100% - ideally cut / fade to head shot, agony / ecstasy  / relief / contented smile - the essentials of the conclusion, rather than the usual pornmongers' "sticky end"

Rooster9 wrote:

Therefore we can identify with them much more readily.

Being on the mature side of 50, [and then some] I could perhaps take issue with you on that one, but I'm not going to do so here, as it's covered in another thread!! smile

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#19 28-09-07 01:09:21

gadzooks
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Re: I feel myself for men

So why not have an equivalent of IFM, but for couples? The 'alchemy' series with Tilly shows that it can be done beautifully with straight couples as well as gay. 'We feel eachother', in Ian's words.
(Personally, I would have no objection to some 'sticky ends' as Ian puts it - the problem with the 'pornmonger's' version is that the 'money shot' is delivered to the woman's face by the man in an effort to reassert and reassure the man's control and dominance of the situation. An IFM-type treatment would be completely different.)

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#20 28-09-07 01:14:47

aven frey
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Re: I feel myself for men

Nowaysis wrote:
richard wrote:

Thanks for reminding me Nowaysis - the tapes you are referring to (Ruby) are now on Bobby's desk.  So bobby, when will they get an airing?

Hmm... I don't know whether to be offended at the blatant disregard for the subject, or excited at the prospect hinted at. big_smile

Don't worry, Richard just gets himself confused sometimes!

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#21 28-09-07 01:15:44

Crotalus1
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Re: I feel myself for men

I have a possible way to bridge the gap.

I think everyone would enjoy a tasteful video of one, or even two of the hot IFM females giving a guy the handjob of his life.

I'd volunteer to be the guinea pig, but, alas,,,,,

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#22 28-09-07 01:22:07

aven frey
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Re: I feel myself for men

gadzooks wrote:

So why not have an equivalent of IFM, but for couples? The 'alchemy' series with Tilly shows that it can be done beautifully with straight couples as well as gay. 'We feel eachother', in Ian's words.
(Personally, I would have no objection to some 'sticky ends' as Ian puts it - the problem with the 'pornmonger's' version is that the 'money shot' is delivered to the woman's face by the man in an effort to reassert and reassure the man's control and dominance of the situation. An IFM-type treatment would be completely different.)

We have actually talked about this before but half the reason Richard is always confused is that he's really super busy with the 3 sites he runs now. To really do this right we would need to spend a lot of time on the one shoot. We would also I think struggle finding enough couples that were really into the concept or being filmed or whatever to make it viable.
I also quite like the idea of some sticky ends. Sticky is fun and boy sticky is just as hot as girl sticky!

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#23 28-09-07 03:07:57

Ianclarke
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Re: I feel myself for men

bobby wrote:

I also quite like the idea of some sticky ends. Sticky is fun and boy sticky is just as hot as girl sticky!

OK, no problem with that - in case you haven't got me sussed yet, I was enjoying a bit of word-play - "Conclusion" vs "Sticky Ends" - and also expressing my distaste for "splat-shots" with half a pint of wallpaper paste.
Sticky's fine by me too, stickier the better, where/whoever it comes from (OK, don't lets stretch that one TOO far), though I don't like having to sleep on "the wet patch" But then, that's why they invented King Size beds, innit smile

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#24 28-09-07 03:29:23

Ianclarke
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Re: I feel myself for men

Crotalus1 wrote:

I think everyone would enjoy a tasteful video of one, or even two of the hot IFM females giving a guy the handjob of his life.

I'd volunteer to be the guinea pig, but, alas,,,,,

Aw c'mon Crotalus - don't be shy! Now you've got us all intrigued - "but alas - WHAT" - do tell!! smile

For me there's no "alas" Send me a short-list of willing female artistes to choose from. 1, 2  or even 3 (#3  I would insist would have a big tube of lube), and I'm on my way to Ringway

Oh, of course I'll need return flight tickets to Oz from here in UK, and you've got a deal smile

No deal? Aw shucks, it was worth a try!!!!!! smile xx

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#25 28-09-07 06:06:04

miss_louis
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Re: I feel myself for men

I'd just like to concur with gala, leda and bobby in saying that watching men jerk off is hot... It is sort of one of my current sexual obsessions, so much so that I have recently developed an intricate text messaging system in order that I do not miss out on any opportunities to watch one of my partners masturbate (I have two partners, unfortunately one of them is a bit of a prude and won't let me watch him).

Indeed, if IFM were to begin filming and posting boys masturbating, or boys being 'assisted' I would very happily volunteer my partner - I could probably ditch the text messaging system in favor of having access to a video of him making himself orgasm on IFM (and he would probably appreciate it if I stopped nagging him to let me watch him all the time). 

Whilst I have considered that acquiring access to a video camera may indeed solve most of my problems, I am pretty sure that this won't suffice in terms of satisfying the urge to watch strange men masturbate...  mmm...

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