Girls with cum in the face

A25frpZ5 · 21-09-17 05:44:57

Hi! I saw in the web some videos like this: a boy cums in the girl's face, and after, while the cum still dripping in the girl's face, she masturbates and make herself cum. What do you think? Any girls like masturbate while her boy is cumming in your face? It may be a nice experience!

I love the site and the beautiful women that contribute.

smoothed · 21-09-17 06:44:41

I don't think this site trades in that kind of sexual performance ... but if a contributor wants to set up such a shoot, will IFM accede to that request?

richard · 21-09-17 08:50:23

I'd be surprised if that opportunity ever arose on an IFM shoot.

_hyperballad_ · 22-09-17 00:56:30

Um. I don't want to sound like a shame-inducing Nanna here but does anyone actually do this in real life?

I mean I haven't *ever* been asked to allow someone to cum on my face & I personally haven't ever wanted this. I have experienced many different things with a litany of sexual partners & degrees of kinky sex... Even in sex clubs I don't think I've seen this act occur organically, staged or otherwise.

Now I'm curious because anecdotal experience does not equate research - does anyone ejaculate or their partners face or enjoy having their face ejaculated on?

the_marquis · 22-09-17 01:40:11

Speaking as a man, I have been asked by a partner to come on her face quite a few times, although I've never had one masturbate afterwards. Usually they'll lick/wipe it off right away.

_hyperballad_ · 22-09-17 02:06:49

Can I respectfully ask what the appeal is for you?

smoothed · 22-09-17 02:38:31

I had a partner offer to let me cum on her face, but I declined. We spoke about it later; it seemed that she had previous sexual partners who had continually asked her to do so. So, a misguided sense of sexual pleasure and submission.

hartp02 · 23-09-17 15:30:52

To me this fits in the chapter:
Humiliating seks.
Japan seems to be fond of it-just find one of their porn sites and type in: Bukkake.
Then you will know enough.
Please spare me this on IFM!
I just happen to choose this site for refreshing and romantic stuff!
Sorry to be so blunt but that is my opinion.

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viva · 24-09-17 07:31:38

I really love when he comes on my face and I ask for it. I find it romantic... i have a poetic/sexualconnection between come in my eyelashes and sunlight in my eyelashes, and I love when he sort of smears the cum into my cheek with the head of his cock. It's not humiliating at all, it's so intimate and loving. when I ask for it I'm not asking him to squirt at my face like a water gun, but rather to gently lay his cock on my cheek or chin while he comes into and around my lips and cheeks and up onto my cheekbone. if i slowly blink open my eyes and my lashes are a bit sticky or heavy with his come it makes me moan and feel very sensual.

it's like a favour to me, instead of swallowing, to have it on my face, like same way i sometimes want it on my tits or belly or ass or the small of my back or in my hand.

smoothed · 25-09-17 02:34:38

viva wrote:

I really love when he comes on my face and I ask for it. I find it romantic... i have a poetic/sexualconnection between come in my eyelashes and sunlight in my eyelashes, and I love when he sort of smears the cum into my cheek with the head of his cock. It's not humiliating at all, it's so intimate and loving. when I ask for it I'm not asking him to squirt at my face like a water gun, but rather to gently lay his cock on my cheek or chin while he comes into and around my lips and cheeks and up onto my cheekbone. if i slowly blink open my eyes and my lashes are a bit sticky or heavy with his come it makes me moan and feel very sensual.
it's like a favour to me, instead of swallowing, to have it on my face, like same way i sometimes want it on my tits or belly or ass or the small of my back or in my hand.

Viva, you and hundreds of the contributors on this site are the reason I pay for IFM -- it's not just the videos, but hearing women speak honestly about what they want from sex, here on the forums... this is truly the heart of what IFM does.

viva · 26-09-17 11:58:42

thanks smoothed!

I felt a little nervous to share this. I think it's complicated, on one hand I want to debunk bad habits learned from mainstream porn that aren't connected to true desire on behalf of the people involved - so many people think that mainstream porn is descriptive of what real men and women want sexually, which is really not true because mainstream porn is really about movie magic!

at the same time, I want to be honest about my true desires, even when they echo mainstream porn...

but like the way I love come, isn't the way I've ever seen depicted in porn. the love, emotion, and physical sensual experience relatiosnhip I have with maleness and cocks and male orgasm and come is so personal. the way I love to feel cum on my face is not really the same as one might see depicted in mainstream porn.. the words are the same... maybe the action could look the same... but the essence is sensual and comes from love, rather than abstract or performative.

this stuff is hard to talk about. when the forms of the ideas might be identical, but the manner of approach could differ so wildly....

aven frey · 27-09-17 00:53:24

men often talk about their desire to have women sit on their faces, ejaculate on their faces, eat, drink, worship, baptise lady wetness so it stands that women would also find male ejaculate highly erotic for a myriad of reasons. I'm not one of those women but I know many!

_hyperballad_ · 27-09-17 02:19:38

Thanks for all the honest answers folks <3

I think we've had a couple of great conversations about this sort of stuff over the years Viva, I really appreciate your candor.

I guess a lot of what we personally experience sexually comes down to nuance & timing, who you're with & what you're feeling (or not feeling) at the time.

southernvibes · 27-09-17 22:16:51

viva wrote:

I really love when he comes on my face and I ask for it. I find it romantic... i have a poetic/sexualconnection between come in my eyelashes and sunlight in my eyelashes, and I love when he sort of smears the cum into my cheek with the head of his cock. It's not humiliating at all, it's so intimate and loving. when I ask for it I'm not asking him to squirt at my face like a water gun, but rather to gently lay his cock on my cheek or chin while he comes into and around my lips and cheeks and up onto my cheekbone. if i slowly blink open my eyes and my lashes are a bit sticky or heavy with his come it makes me moan and feel very sensual.
it's like a favour to me, instead of swallowing, to have it on my face, like same way i sometimes want it on my tits or belly or ass or the small of my back or in my hand.

Viva you could not be more erotic and sensual about it. Thanks à lot for Sharing

southernvibes · 27-09-17 22:20:20

I m actualy thinking i could talk about sex for hours with you and it would Always bé this sensual and interesting

viva · 29-09-17 14:04:11

Thanks Hyperballad! I was worried I was letting you down a bit by stating my enjoyment of this act - in a "does anyone really like this??" scenario, I reckon there's always someone who could say, "yes actually I do" - but that answer, without any further interrogation or connection, can sort of destroy the feeling of safe spaceness and comraderie. It takes bravery to expose yourself and call out a topic which isn't generally discussed and so I feel it's a bit rude to undermine that by being like "me i do."

I hesitated to answer for that reason - not wanting to derail or detract from what is actually an important topic. But ultimately I wanted to share, and not just to share but to clarify and try to draw a distinction between what I do enjoy and what you're referring to. because I think the essence of your question is important - that the forms of sexuality in mainstream porn are sort of subverted, and they're not what anyone really likes, true, because they're an abstraction of true desire. So in that sense you're right to imply that no one really wants that - because, scenes like money shot ejaculating on performer's faces... that's not real. it's not how people really interact when they're following their arousal.

It might resemble it - it could, by coincidence, even be real in the moment, between any given performers - but as long as its a job and the constraints of the job require it to be done, it's like Shroedinger's desire or something. we can't know if it's actually there or not. as long as those people have to do it, and they don't get paid if they don't, then it's not real. it cannot have the essence of truth.

and it's important because, I think it's really important to depict real desire, messy, weird, romantic, nervous, and ultimately extraordinarily creative and varied as it is. and it's possible to do it. it's more expensive and there's more room for error, since you have to let people actually feel. the light might run out. the batteries might run out. sometimes you won't get those money shots, sometimes you won't get any shot at all. filming real desire is hard... but being able to watch it as your porn, for me to be able to move people simultaneously with my tears and my orgasms.. if I had known since I was a young girl that just being me, that being real was absolutely perfect, messy, awkward, confusion and all - well, it would have changed my life.

FWIW, I think the IFM model is the best I've seen, where a contributor can be alone with the camera. Even then, I have to be able to relax, I have to be able to connect to my desire at all, which to be honest, is really hard for me. and I don't think I'm the only one. I haven't filmed a duet but it's my understanding that they require a camera person - though, some of our duets achieve such an extraordinary level of intimacy regardless (see Henna and Lilly's upcoming duet, "holding space") .

also, fuck you patriarchy, I often feel that one of the worst things for me about patriarchal culture is how it causes me to struggle internally and socially with my innate love of men and the male body. it's such a beautiful love, I hate its subversion. stupid non-consensual objectification, stupid porn, stupid rape culture, stupid patriarchy fuck you.

A25frpZ5 · 06-10-17 04:27:23

Viva, I like you most day by day, I love this kind of sexual point of view in a woman. And I find romantic to play with the sexual fluids too. I think in sexual affairs exists various opinions. I love your videos, you're great!

_hyperballad_ · 06-10-17 06:07:35

Never Viva! I highly value these conversations with you

I am also as always genuinely curious about others sexy-business-having that's different to mine. I think it becomes especially interesting in this case when a particular sexual act becomes synonymous with mainstream porno. How do people that like that thing navigate their experience of it? And you are open hearted & candid in response & in general about things that I think are kinda tough to talk about. I appreciate that.

You know I vividly remember many, many years ago now we were in the office at Feck HQ hashing it out about faking orgasms with your partner & I was the one saying 'actually, I have done this & these are my (valid) reasons why'.

It's never rude to tell the truth & I wouldn't ever want you to feel like you should with me.

I also concur on fucking the patriachy & I really wish you were here so I could give you a hug xx

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viva · 09-10-17 12:55:38

thanks love! I also always recall that orgasm faking conversation, it's been one of those talks that stays with me. I am sure we will see each other quite soon, we are overdue for hugs and chats.

ps A25 thank you!

_redbird_ · 31-08-18 06:01:23

Wow, a pretty old thread but really interesting! Viva, as always you perfectly articulated your feelings about the subject and made it sound really lovely. How do you do this thing that you do? I am constantly amazed by you and your talent for poetic eloquence.

I personally have never really been into this, but that wasn't so much from real life experiences but rather the depiction of it in porn was almost always really nasty and degrading in a way that I wasn't into at all. I really love it when my partner comes on my tum and boobs and don't mind when a bit gets on my face but I've had jizz waterlog (jizzlog?) my ear, had it go straight up my nose, and have thrice gotten it in my eye which stings like the dickens I can tell you!! It's the erratic nature of a man's cum that throws me off and makes me somewhat anxious.

The way you describe it though Viva sounds really lovely, like more of a loving smear than a big splooge all over the place.

viva · 01-09-18 02:00:09

ah redbird thanks!! reading back over what I said makes me feel so hopeful and eager to find a lover again. whenever I go too long without sex I feel like some great natural resource is being wasted. I have soooo much love to give.

hilariously since my stupid breakup I kind of stopped eating and then when i started again i just decided not to eat carbs and yesterday i read that cum actually has sugar in it.. so I guess when I meet someone that will be the end of my deprivation.. and I'll drink wine and cum and get fat and happy again <3

harcos2018 · 04-09-18 15:07:50

Interesting thread, with some very good observations RE: the difference between porn sex and sex built on affection. Tangential to this, I'll bet many have had experiences similar to mine with my wife. When we were first married and experimenting with different things, we both wanted me to come onto different parts of her body - chest, breasts, abdomen - even in her mouth - but we never considered cum on her face, as such. Not that it was thought of as a terrible thing - we just didn't think of it. For better or worse, we moved out of that phase, so that now we would seem to be an unimaginative, very conservative couple sexually. Sometimes I miss the old days, but mostly, I'm very content with things as they are now.

_redbird_ · 14-09-18 04:30:17

I feel you Harcos, I'm much the same really. I find comfortability and casual, not so "wild" sex really hot. I'm also not nearly as flexible as I used to be and I also hurt a tendon in my knee three years ago that just makes certain positions and the length I can go for a fair bit different now. I've been with my partner for less than 3 years so I'm probably pretty early to the "boring" sex party but I'm totally okay with that. I was never too adventurous in the first place so it's actually not much of a change I guess, haha.

viva · 17-09-18 03:40:06

redbird when you're as beautiful and special as you are, there's no such thing as casual ... i love you and your videos here reveal a sexuality thats so sweet and deep and .. well I guess there are many different kinds of adventure. but I would never call you boring. you are just amazing and exciting even (especially?) when you're staring into space wondering how much longer your mac n cheese needs in the oven.

Howland · 18-09-18 01:11:26

Mmmm ... mac n cheese ... !

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